Dunya Today – 3rd July 2009

Slam.I am a doctor ,ali amir,living in muzaffarabad currently working in Rawalpindi.I came to know through media that a girl named firdos shaheen d/o hussain bukhari who lives in Muzaffarabad ,lower plate,university student,belong to syed family left home against her parents will with a boy named zameer loan who was her neighbourer belonging to a non-syed family .I personally know that boy and girl and want to share some real facts with u so that you might solve this chronic issue of muzaffarabad through talks,discussions or any other suitable way.

In muzaffarabad,there is a tradition according to which syed family dont give their daughters outside thier family and this is what which happened to this girl and boy.The parents of the boy went 3-4 times to hussain bukhari home for the rishta of thier daughter through a respectable way but hussain bukhari refused them.firdos and zameer knew each other foR 4 to 5 yeras and they want to marry in a respectable way but the parents of firdos refused coz they were syed and they were bound according to the false tradition which is present in muzaffarabad.Due to this reason they decided to escape from muzaffarabad .Now the current situation is that firdos and zameer are escaped,syed group is chasing them to kill this young couple who is married and living a hilal life.
Remember.this is not the only case of muzaffarabad .There are lot of couples who escaped muzaffarabad due to this false tradition some of them killed by syeds and some luckily survived.
I want to share something very important that due to this tradition of not giving syed daughters to non-syeds,,lot many syed girls have to wait sometime thier whole life for a good resonsble match.I personally know a lot of syed girls who are aged becoz they have no good match available in thier syed family and thier parents are bound by not giving thier daughters outside thier family coz if they do so they have risk to thier lives by some dominating syeds in muzaffarabad.
According to AAIT U LLAH KHAMNI of Iran and PEER NASEER OF GOLRA SHARIF through a fatwa,,syed girl can marry a non syed boy and this will b a hilal relation but due to lack of knowledge..people of muzaffarabad are not realising this fact and they are spoiling thier daughters lives.
The reason of this mail is that i want a favour from you that kindly arrange a debate in muzaffarabad through media involving syed kafayat hussain naqvi,leader syed family,syed shabbir bukhari,2nd to kafayat naqvi and other people so that a fatwa can b issued to cancel this false tradition which is totally against the islam and prophet teachings,so that those sisters and daughters who are waiting for a good match,could b benefited and thier lives could b saved.